What type of men are players

I do agree with your thoughts, and personally value the sincere connection between two people as the highest level of awareness and reciprocal love. Indeed it might not come with relationship exclusivities or commitment but I am sure that people who profoundly nurture self love can thrive and succeed regardless of other people behavior.

Indeed they can be leader and healer of broken human being. Thank you for your beautiful topics and insights. They are very valuable to me. Reading this article felt like opening my third eye. When things ended and he acted like a completely different person, it was pretty shocking. I feel very stupid for falling for it! Thanks for your blog. I just bought your book. Zan this was an article that I really needed to read! Sign me up for the newsletter! Notify me of follow-up comments by email.

Notify me of new posts by email. Does A Happy Man Cheat? Yes Or No? B Reply. Hi Trevor. What players promise is an adventure, a whirlwind of romance and, possibly, great sex. And the best of all to epitomize the type of player with a boundless love for women: Giacomo Casanova. Casanova type of players will really love you. And love you deeply and passionately. Casanova types of lovers will remember you forever, think of you fondly, or even get heartbroken when they depart… But they do depart.

These types of players love the feeling of romance. And the goodbye is often part of the romance. There is a bitter-sweet, poetic touch in goodbyes. I know it will sound nonsense to some of you, but some of my favorite moments of a sexual encounter are walking her back.

And some of my sweetest memories are farewells to lovers who moved away or stayed when I moved away. To you, it means you must watch out. The Casanova type of player is the kind of player who is most likely to break your heart. And it will be amazing… Until he needs to go for another romance. They will always keep an eye open for other women.

Many of them have a touch of madness and irrationality. Which is attractive. And some even have a mean streak, which is a p o t e nt seductive trait for low self-esteem women and women with masochistic tendencies. Some are milder, with a brooding personality or a light sadness about them, a veil of depression, a need to be taken care of -which women love to provide-. The most powerful artistic players are more direct and active though.

They might, but that might also mean that as they get tamed, they also lose their best artistic talent. But in some men, that player needs to be awakened through easy options and opportunities.

Enter the opportunity players. The opportunity players are not truly players at heart. These are men who might become wealthy and powerful, or famous, or mature to be highly attractive men. As a friend of mine was once told that moms get tired of the endless parade of women. Sure the boinking is fantastic but you might be mistaking sexual intimacy for love. Among my female clients, this is a very common mistake they make with men. The intensity and passion in the bedroom is often misunderstood as being a real love connection.

This is really important. Most men are able to separate sexual intimacy from the deeper emotional connection of a relationship and this creates a struggle for the woman. Of course, if you find yourself running into guys that are consistently refusing to commit or your stay in a relationship, you have to look at the dynamics of your dating style and how it works with guys.

The arrogant bad boy. The only way to spot this player is to steer clear right off the bat. The victim. The commitment-phobe.

The late caller. Also called the night owl, this type of player only calls you past midnight and usually only has a few hours to hang out — and by hang out, I mean have sex. Ignore his texts or better yet, block his number. The multiple personality disorder. The effortless dater. His idea of a romantic date is Netflix and chill and you never go out in public together. Simple as that. The wannabe.